How to start exploring BDSM, a beginners guide

While fetish fashions like leather corsets and collars are fairly common in mainstream culture, BDSM, the subculture that created these fashions, remains a mystery or taboo to most people. I've had questions from friends and family on a complete range of subjects, though the questions normally range from "Doesn't that hurt?" to "Am you normal for wanting to do this?"So, I thought I'd actually get together a full list of the questions I've been asked and other common questions about BDSM in this beginner's guide, and hopefully put away some of people's concerns and thoughts about this 'taboo' subject and hope it helps people to understand it more more on exploring bdsm

An Introduction to the Art of Spanking - Sex Tip of a Lifetime

Sincerely speaking every man on earth can confess to having had a strong desire to spank his or somebody else's woman. It might be a simple fetish or a spice to add to your passion. Before you spank your woman, you should be careful to learn some tips on how to spank her and do it right. In the practical world spanking is done without caring much about the consequences. In the real world spanking should be done with the right tempo. Before a man revs up his hand, he should first find out whether she would like the sensation of an open palm against her sitting apparatus (buttocks). A sign to look out for is whether she likes being dominated in sex or if she is fond of running her nails down your spine. If this is the case then she is likely to enjoy being spanked. more or the art of spanking

Technology and Sex Life

The innovative usage of technology to enhance womens sexuality. Since time immemorial men and women have searched for and found techniques and tools to spice up their sex lives. Since time immemorial men and women have searched for and found techniques and tools to spice up their sex lives. From various oils and aphrosdisiacs to men, women and organizations have created and improvised upon different tools. Individuals such as Hugh Hefner, founder of Playboy magazine have become billionaires fulfilling peoples wildest visual fantasises more on sex and technology

Nipple Stimulation for Men and Women

When it comes to sex, women's nipples get plenty of attention from the guys, but not so much the other way around. The practice of nipple play among gay males is more wide spread, according to some research, but straight guys are becoming more switched on to the possibilities of well executed nipple stimulation for pleasure.

There's an old joke – why are women's breasts like toy trains? Both are designed for children, but it's dad who always ends up playing with them the most. Indeed, may men have a breast fixation, and the centre of this attention revolves around the nipples. more on nipple stimulation for men and women

Prostate Massage is the Male Equivilant of the Female G-spot

Prostate massage is an old technique that has been used successfully for hundreds of years. There is no guarantee that it will work for you, but it certainly is worth the effort. Prostate massage is the most effective means of doing so, as no other method directly stimulates the prostate gland. Tensing the muscles of your entire body can increase the pressure of the massage. Prostate massage is carried out usually with a massager tool or the finger. The idea is to massage the area of the rectal wall which is next to the prostate so that the gland is stimulated. more on prostate massage

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